Cheaters

Hey, why is it that it is becoming commonplace for many to 'hook up' with someone else before ending a relationship? What are people thinking these days? This opens up a lot of issues for me personally. Number one issue, is that very very few are committed in their relationships. Trust is not there. Why? People are more self-centered these days. What causes this self-centeredness? FEAR! A thousand forms of it. Just watch people for awhile and see what happens. Listen to how selfish they are. How it's what "they" want in their relationships. What kind of mate would be the 'perfect' mate. Where's the love? Word to the wise here, love is an action! Period. Sure, there's a time when chemistry kicks in and we 'fall in love'. Many are getting 'addicted' to this blissful 'feeling' of falling in love, and when the grind of a relationship kicks in (often called... the reality of life), people are scooting towards finding that 'feeling of falling in love again'. To carry on this way ends in bitter lonliness and eventually never being able to form a partnership with someone.

Here's the zen thought of it all:
To live a lifetime with someone, you have to live a lifetime with someone!
Excuse theirs faults, love them and keep going.
Sure, there's times when you just 'have' to let go of a very bad situation. But most of the problems today come from people being impatient, selfish, needy, and basically unloving.
It is NOT 'all about me'. Get a clue people. Stop cheating YOURSELVES!